Ida May Fuhr was one of four girls; her unfailing sense of
humor was a gift from her father. Ida May was a 1916 graduate of Notre Dame de
Bon Secours (later Redemptorist Girls') High School, joining the Dominican
Sisters in 1924, after studying shorthand in Chicago and then working as a
secretary. Her "group" included Srs. Mary Rita Melanson, Charles
Sellers, the late Sisters Mary Paul Schneckenberger, Reginald Warner and
Alexaidia Trouard. She taught at St. John the Baptist, St. Matthias, St. Leo,
Our Lady of Lourdes, St. Peter and Holy Ghost, after which she became ill for a
year and a half.
She completed her work for the B.S. in Business Education in
1939 after eleven years of Saturday classes and summer school, and began
teaching in the Business Education Department which she founded; she began
graduate work at LSU in Baton Rouge in summer 1940.
At the vigil, where the sisters gather to pray evening prayer
and share memories with family and old friends, she was remembered by her
sisters as confidante, trusted keeper of secrets, master-listener and special
friend. Her physical constitution was frail, yet she had incredible stamina and
accomplished herculean tasks in the most unobtrusive way. She was always at your
service, whoever you happened to be. Sister Mary Damian Cazale recalled her
approach to summer school at LSU, beginning graduate work at a fairly advanced
age under some adverse living conditions. Her simple dedication and good humor
inspired the younger sister-students.
Some who read the obituary were astonished at her professional
achievements, both locally and nationally. Home folks may have been encouraged
by her own self-effacing but endearing way to take her not so much "for
granted" as "to heart." Witness this homely verse, found in her
file (she herself put it there!), which may be traceable to her devoted student,
Sister Mary Jane Birrcher, and which touched a chord of response when read by
Sr. Therese at the vigil:
There is a little lady who's been around here for a while
Her demeanor is so quiet, yet you never miss her smile.
Today we honor her specially as we celebrate FIFTY miles.
Most of which have been with us, in and out of many files.
We could call her our "odds and ends" friend, or
maybe a phone service deluxe.
Yet perhaps she's our listening queen, for time she gives so much.
Sister, fifty years of service is your life to Him,
Twenty-five of which you've been our Secretary Gen.
So we say thanks today for all that you have done.
Now take this new typewriter and continue to have fun!
Sister Mary Liguori was every sister's cherished friend. There
will never be another quite like her. Sister Dorothy Dawes, among those who
loved her tenderly, invokes her as St. Mary's own patron saint of the archives.